I wonder whether my approach on friendships is really the right option.
There are two different ways you can approach people and friendships.
1). Make friends with as many people as possible. Be a nice person all round to everyone,(with a few exceptions).
2). Make friends with a select group of people. Not really be that out there, and only trust those "few" that you consider good friends.
As is obvious I'm 2). But like I've come to realise a flaw in the whole "have only a few really close friends" option. If one of those friends starts loosening in their ties to you, things tend to get bad. Generally because with having a few closer friends, it effects you more when you start loosing them. You see having a larger number of friends means you can generally let people go quite easily. Just have a fall back plan and go on to the next person.
But is being one of those numerous "fake" people really a good option. Turning into a generic plastic slave of society in return for a somewhat cliche'd happy life.
I wonder whether my approach on friendships is really the right option.
There are two different ways you can approach people and friendships.
1). Make friends with as many people as possible. Be a nice person all round to everyone,(with a few exceptions).
2). Make friends with a select group of people. Not really be that out there, and only trust those "few" that you consider good friends.
As is obvious I'm 2). But like I've come to realise a flaw in the whole "have only a few really close friends" option. If one of those friends starts loosening in their ties to you, things tend to get bad. Generally because with having a few closer friends, it effects you more when you start loosing them. You see having a larger number of friends means you can generally let people go quite easily. Just have a fall back plan and go on to the next person.
But is being one of those numerous "fake" people really a good option. Turning into a generic plastic slave of society in return for a somewhat cliche'd happy life.
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Name's Damien, music is the game. Don't know where I'd be without it.
Mucked around with some themes coz I was bored.
Here's my negative release on the world.
Fav Bands
Muse..
Red Hot Chili Peppers
Anything that isn't bullshit pop
Wants
Musicman Stingray bass
Ferrari 599
Maxda rx7 fortune by veilside
Dislikes>
most bullshit mainstream music
annoying girls who like playing with guys
most people
networks